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Betsy Nettleton, PsyD(She/Her/Hers)

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Psychologist, PsyD
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Anxiety - Depression-Sensitivity-Imposter syndrome-Rumination- Relationship issues-

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Professional statement

Betsy Nettleton is a psychoanalytic psychotherapist working in Chicago with over twenty years of experience. She is currently completing her analytic training at the Chicago Center for Psychoanalysis. She is available in person and online downtown Chicago.

Betsy works with people who feel persistently at odds with themselves, carrying something troubling that doesn't ease up, or something painful that conscious insight alone hasn't quite reached. She also works with people who have been knocked off balance by life circumstance, whether it be a more obvious difficulty (a loss of some kind) or just a sudden change from the ordinary. Rather than focusing only on the past, she also pays close attention to what's happening in the moment, both in life and in sessions. And rather than helping you manage or avoid what's difficult, she helps you actually stay with the hard feelings and tolerate the uncertainty of wondering: What comes next? Will this end? What might it mean? She values the capacity to remain curious about one's experiences, even the upsetting ones, and works to help convey this attitude in sessions.

With this kind of attention, over time, patterns that were hard to name gradually become visible. This can change not just how you feel, but how you relate to others and even yourself. Symptoms may ease, but what tends to change even more fundamentally is how you experience yourself: in conversations, in relationships, in choices you make.


Message to clients

Maybe you already know your patterns. You've talked about them, traced them, understood them. And they haven't changed. That's not a failure of insight. Some things need a different kind of attention, and that's what this kind of work helps address. Or, maybe it's nothing that specific. Something just feels wrong, or urgent, or frightening. Panic, dread, a feeling you can't get on top of. A persistent sense that something isn't right and hasn't been for a long time. Either way, you don't need to arrive having it figured out. Whatever is on your mind when you get here is where we can start.

I follow what's coming up as you talk: what feels hard to say, what you keep circling back to, where you go quiet. I offer observations, not instructions. I notice when something familiar shows up between us (and also when something new emerges) and speak to that in a way that invites reflection, dialogue, pushing back, playing with ideas. And when those observations resonate, when you feel recognized rather than analyzed, something different becomes possible. You open up a bit. You feel freer to be curious about what is going on and that gives you a chance to try something different.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 20 years

Private Practice, Licensed Clinical Psychologist, 2008 - Present
Chicago Center for Psychoanalysis, Psychoanalytic Training Candidate, 2017 - Present

Chicago School of Professional Psychology, PsyD - Doctor of Psychology, 2006
University of Minnesota, BS Biology, 1997

Licensure

Illinois: 071007496 - Alabama: 14884 - Arizona: 14884 - Arkansas: 14884 - Colorado: 14884 - Connecticut: 14884 - Delaware: 14884 - Washington DC: 14884 - Florida: 14884 - Georgia: 14884 - Idaho: 14884 - Indiana: 14884 - Kansas: 14884 - Kentucky: 14884 - Maine: 14884 - Maryland: 14884 - Michigan: 14884 - Minnesota: 14884 - Mississippi: 14884 - Missouri: 14884 - Nebraska: 14884 - Nevada: 14884 - New Hampshire: 14884 - New Jersey: 14884 - North Carolina: 14884 - North Dakota: 14884 - Ohio: 14884 - Oklahoma: 14884 - Pennsylvania: 14884 - Rhode Island: 14884 - South Carolina: 14884 - South Dakota: 14884 - Tennessee: 14884 - Texas: 14884 - Utah: 14884 - Virginia: 14884 - Washington: 14884 - West Virginia: 14884 - Wisconsin: 14884 - Wyoming: 14884

Languages

English

Specialties

Anxiety - Sometimes anxiety is internal: worry that won't quiet, dread before ordinary situations, panic that arrives without warning. Sometimes it lives in interactions: leaving conversations unsettled, being unsure how you came across. And sometimes it’s a sense that something frightening is coming, even if you are not sure what.

Depression - A heaviness that doesn't lift. Going through the motions. Somehow the things that used to matter stopped mattering. Good things arrive but don't feel good, or the feeling is just gone almost as soon as it comes. Sometimes there's sadness. Often it's just bleakness or emptiness.

Sensitivity - Reactions that feel outsized, a tendency to register everything intensely, whether it is noise, physical sensation, the emotional temperature of a room. The world feels genuinely loud in ways others don't seem to notice. There’s not much of a buffer between you and everything coming in.

Imposter syndrome - A persistent sense of not quite being yourself, like you're performing. It might not even feel entirely fake, perhaps more like a version of you that's been turned up to meet what the situation requires. But there's still a waiting to be found out, and it's exhausting.

Rumination - TThe thought or worry you can't stop returning to. The conversation you keep replaying. Or maybe the conviction that if you just think about it a little more you'll finally figure it out.

Relationship issues - So much of what makes life feel meaningful happens in relationships. But relationships can also be a source of tremendous pain. The same patterns keep showing up: with partners, family, friends. You find yourself in situations you didn't choose and can't quite get out of.




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois PPO

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$180 (55min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • PayPal
  • Zelle
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Multiple times a week
  • As needed
Therapist's note

I am in-network for Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO. This means I am in-network for all state Blue Cross Blue Shield plans if they are PPO plans.


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