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Heather Waxman(She/Her/Hers)

(She/Her/Hers)
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
ConnecticutNew York
Anxiety -Chronic stress & burnout- Trauma- Life transitions-Identity development- Relationship issues-

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Professional statement

Heather Waxman is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and certified somatic practitioner who works with chronically stressed adults navigating anxiety, burnout, trauma, and life transitions. Her clients are often thoughtful, introspective, and self-aware, yet feel tense, emotionally overloaded, or disconnected despite years of insight or personal growth. Many are moving through identity shifts, relationship changes, or seasons when old coping strategies no longer work, and are seeking a therapeutic space that feels steady, grounded, and supportive.

Heather’s approach is holistic, trauma-informed, and somatic, integrating nervous system regulation, relational therapy, and depth-oriented psychotherapy. She works from a non-pathologizing perspective, understanding experiences such as anxiety, chronic stress, or over-responsibility as meaningful adaptations rather than problems to fix. Therapy is paced with care and attunement, allowing clients to slow down, listen inwardly, and build a felt sense of safety so change can unfold gradually and sustainably.

Sessions are warm, collaborative, and grounded in nervous system safety. Heather works with both conversation and the body, using somatic practices, parts-based work informed by Internal Family Systems, and gentle experiential tools to support regulation, release chronic tension, and integrate insight at an embodied level. For clients who are open to it, she may also incorporate earth-based or symbolic perspectives, drawing on cycles of growth, rest, loss, and renewal as supports for meaning-making and integration.

Heather has over 13 years of experience supporting individuals in healing and growth. She offers therapy to adults in Connecticut through in-person and telehealth sessions, and provides telehealth services to residents of New York. She works primarily in weekly or bi-weekly sessions and offers longer-term therapy for clients seeking lasting, integrated change. Her practice is private pay.


Message to clients

This work is not about fixing you or helping you cope better with an unsustainable pace. It’s about changing how you live inside yourself, so your nervous system has the support it needs to settle, reorganize, and move forward with greater ease.

Therapy with me can support you in gently releasing roles, identities, and survival patterns that once kept you safe, while making space to grieve losses—of relationships, identities, or imagined futures—that no longer fit who you’re becoming. Together, we work in a way that stabilizes the nervous system during endings and transitions, helping you stay connected to yourself through emotional challenges, experience anxiety and stress with greater steadiness, and soften patterns of chronic tension or over-responsibility.

Over time, many clients notice that their bodies feel less braced and more at ease, emotions feel more manageable, and a deeper sense of inner safety and self-trust begins to take root. Most people experience gradual relief and meaningful shifts, often reaching their initial therapy goals within 3–6 months of weekly or bi-weekly sessions. If this way of working resonates with you, I warmly invite you to book a free consultation.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 3 years


The Workout Witch, Certified Somatic Exercises Instructor, 2025
Complementary Therapists Accredited Association, Certified Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Practitioner, 2024
Fairfield University, Master of Arts in Marriage & Family Therapy, 2023
Angelic Breath Healing Teacher Training, Angelic Breath Healing Teacher, 2018

Licensure

Connecticut: 27.003636 - New York: 002547-01

Languages

English

Specialties

Anxiety - Persistent worry or anticipatory stress; feeling overwhelmed, tense, or on edge; difficulty settling the body or mind even when things are “fine”; anxiety rooted in over-responsibility, hyper-vigilance, or long-standing nervous system activation.

Chronic stress & burnout - Ongoing tension or exhaustion from prolonged responsibility or over-functioning; difficulty resting or slowing down; feeling braced, depleted, or stuck in survival mode despite outward competence.

Trauma - Lingering effects of relational, developmental, or chronic stress–based trauma; nervous system patterns shaped by early caregiving, attachment wounds, or prolonged stress; difficulty feeling safe, relaxed, or present even when current circumstances are stable.

Life transitions - Periods of identity change, grief, relationship shifts, career crossroads, or spiritual questioning; feeling disoriented, unsteady, or unsure how to move forward as old roles or ways of coping no longer fit.

Identity development - Questioning long-held beliefs about who you are or how you should live; outgrowing familiar roles or patterns; seeking a deeper, more embodied sense of self that aligns with your values and inner truth.

Relationship issues - Patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, emotional self-containment, or difficulty trusting support; challenges with boundaries, closeness, or feeling safe and secure in relationships.




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

Heather Waxman is not in-network with any insurances.

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Out-of-pocket fees

Get reimbursed for sessions with Heather Waxman

Many health insurance plans reimburse 50-80% of session fees with out-of-network therapists. Learn if your health insurance plan qualifies.

  • Individual sessions:$225 (60min)
  • Sliding scale:$150 - $225

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Credit Card
  • Debit Card
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Every other week
  • As needed

Client testimonials

"Heather called me right at the time I selected and we had a great conversation. We set up our first psychotherapy appointment."
- Zencare client December 2025

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