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Many people come to therapy with a desire for greater clarity, balance, and a deeper understanding of themselves.
Psychotherapy at its best is both stabilizing and transformative. I am an integrative, relational, and insight-oriented psychotherapist with nearly 30 years of experience and a longstanding private practice in Rhinebeck, New York. My work draws from DBT, EMDR, attachment-based, and mind-body approaches to support emotional and physiological regulation, always tailored to the individual.
I am particularly attuned to patterns—how early attachment, coping strategies, and stress responses shape relationships, work, and self-perception. Many of the individuals I work with are thoughtful and capable, yet navigating significant strain, including relationship challenges, burnout, trauma histories, chronic illness, or complex life transitions. Often, there is a sense that something could feel different—more grounded, more clear, or more aligned.
I also have depth of experience supporting women through divorce and the aftermath of high-conflict or destabilizing relational dynamics, with a focus on restoring clarity, boundaries, and self-trust. For clients facing medical or chronic health conditions, I incorporate mind-body perspectives that support nervous system regulation and overall resilience.
Our work is collaborative and focused on insight, emotional regulation, and meaningful, lasting change within a grounded and confidential therapeutic relationship.
Years of Experience: 28 years
Life transitions - Coping with difficult or impactful life changes, such as moving to a new area, relationship transitions, child rearing, or career changes; learning self-care to better manage resulting stress
Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating
Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse
Women's Issues - Therapy tailored to common concerns among women; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges, stressors, and questions around identity as a woman
Mind-body connection - Practicing mindfulness to draw together how the body feels physically and how the mind feels mentally; healing both physically and mentally
Life purpose & meaning - Exploring one’s beliefs and values around life purpose, meaning, and spirituality; addressing the barriers to living a life that feels fulfilling, including instigating change or developing new habits
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