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Mary Gates(She/Her/Hers)

(She/Her/Hers)
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Connecticut
Anxiety - Depression-Substance abuse- Trauma-Transition to new parenthood-Women's Issues-
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Professional statement

Are you or a loved one seeking real, lasting change from substance use or life's toughest transitions? Mary E. Gates, LMSW, LADC, is a dedicated clinician who helps adults, women, and families facing substance use, mental health concerns, and life changes. She has extensive experience with clients involved in DCF, court services, and residential programs. Mary is especially passionate about working with women balancing recovery, parenting, and healing from trauma.

Mary’s approach to therapy is collaborative, compassionate, and rooted in evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Motivational Interviewing (MI). She uses a trauma-informed, person-centered lens to help clients better understand themselves, manage emotions, and develop practical coping skills. Her goal is to create a safe, supportive space where clients feel empowered to move forward at their own pace.

With a strong clinical background in both residential and community settings, Mary has experience providing individual and group therapy, completing comprehensive assessments, and developing treatment plans tailored to each client’s needs. She works closely with community providers and systems of care to support continuity and long-term success. She is currently pursuing her Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), further enhancing her clinical expertise.

Mary offers flexible scheduling and provides telehealth sessions across Connecticut, making therapy accessible and convenient. She is committed to meeting clients where they are and helping them build meaningful, lasting change in their lives.


Message to clients

I would start off by saying I know starting therapy can feel like a big step. You don’t need everything figured out to begin. My goal is to offer a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space so you can show up as you are. Whether you’re addressing substance use, feeling overwhelmed, managing stress, or navigating transitions, we’ll proceed at a pace that works for you.

Therapy should be collaborative and empowering. I will meet you where you are and help you build insight, develop coping skills, and move toward the changes you want. My approach is compassionate, honest, and evidence-based. I will always respect your voice and experience.

My aim is for you to feel in control, confident, and clear on your goals. You aren’t alone. Taking this step is progress.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 16 years

LIBERATION PROGRAMS, INC, CLINICIAN III, 2021 - 2026

ASAM, CERTIFICATION, 2025
BEHAVIORAL HEALTH , CERIFICATION, 2024
FORDHAM UNIVERSITY, MASTER SOCIAL WORK, 2020
ALBERTU MAGNUS COLLEGE, BACHERLOS OF SCIENCE HUMAN SEVERICE, 2015

Licensure

Connecticut: 08409 - Connecticut: 001400

Supervisor: DARLYNE MILORD(LCSW 58.012741)


Languages

English

Specialties

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Depression - Providing support and promoting healing of hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life

Substance abuse - Reducing and preventing the negative impact of drug and alcohol use and addictions on physical, emotional, and relational health

Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse

Transition to new parenthood - Working with parents as they adjust to new parenthood

Women's Issues - Therapy tailored to common concerns among women; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges, stressors, and questions around identity as a woman




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield
  • United Healthcare

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$50 (60min)
  • Sliding scale:$35 - $50

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