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Dr. Jeff Selman is a licensed psychologist and Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA-D) who works with individuals functioning at a high level in demanding, performance-driven environments. Many of the people he works with are meeting expectations and maintaining strong performance, but find that doing so has become increasingly effortful. The pressure can be constant, thinking difficult to step away from, and there is often a growing gap between external success and internal experience.
He works with high-performing professionals in leadership and high-responsibility roles, as well as individuals navigating demanding academic and early-career paths. Across these contexts, clients are often managing sustained pressure, overthinking, and a persistent sense that they should be operating at a higher level—despite clear evidence of strong performance.
Dr. Selman’s approach is grounded in cognitive-behavioral and acceptance-based therapies, with a focus on improving clarity, reducing unnecessary mental strain, and supporting more effective responses under pressure. His work often begins with developing a clear understanding of patterns in thinking and behavior, sometimes incorporating targeted assessment and data-informed strategies to guide the direction of treatment.
He also has experience working with individuals who are intellectually gifted or neurodivergent, where internal demands can be as complex as external expectations. In these cases, treatment is tailored to align with each individual’s cognitive style and the specific challenges they face.
Dr. Selman’s style is direct, collaborative, and thoughtful. The work is focused on creating meaningful and sustainable change, while supporting clients in continuing to perform effectively in the areas of their lives that matter most.
Years of Experience: 16 years
Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)
Stress management - Strengthening effective ways of coping with the stress of life and change; managing expectations of self and others
Work stress - Managing overwhelming stress and expectations; increasing effective ways of restoring and maintaining emotional stability and health; addressing challenging relationships with coworkers and bosses
Burnout - Managing and recovering from stressors that lead to feelings of decreased motivation and disconnection from the self; practicing effective self-care and finding ways to relax both physically and mentally
Entrepreneur mental health - Processing through the emotional highs and lows of running a business; learning about one’s values and exploring how these values impact the decisions that one makes for the business
Imposter syndrome - Learning how to identify instances of imposter syndrome and combatting any beliefs that one is not enough or does not deserve good things; practicing assertiveness and developing confidence
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