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Jeffrey Selman(He/Him/His)

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Psychologist, PsyD
VirginiaArizonaColoradoConnecticut
ADHD- Anxiety -Autism spectrum disorder-Child mental health- Depression-College & graduate student mental health-

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Professional statement

As a licensed psychologist with expertise in behavioral and neurodevelopmental differences, Dr. Selman's primary objective is to create sustainable behavior change where it is wanted, and to empower clients, parents, and families to partner in this change. He loves the work and welcomes complex and challenging cases. Dr. Selman's sessions tend to be active, goal-oriented, and engaging. Clients and families can expect to work with a collaborative, solution-focused, straight forward psychologist who is dedicated to helping them succeed. His approach mixes empathy and compassion with an emphasis on results.

Dr. Selman offers teletherapy services. He specializes in working with children, adolescents, and adults presenting with ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, anxiety, mood disorders, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, and academic needs related to executive functioning weaknesses, college transitions, giftedness and twice exceptionality (2e).

Dr. Selman's practice is based in scientifically-supported assessments and interventions. When working with children and adolescents, especially those presenting with challenging behavior, it requires commitment from parents and families in order to be successful. His commitment in return is to facilitate collaboration across settings, including your child's school community and outside providers. This ensures meaningful change for families, across settings, and into the future.


Message to clients

Most of the people I work with come to me after trying multiple approaches that haven’t worked—and they’re frustrated that nothing has led to real change. They may be dealing with ADHD, autism, anxiety, or ongoing challenges with focus, motivation, and emotional regulation. Some are parents looking for help for their child, while others are high school or college students—or adults—trying to manage increasing academic, work, and life demands.

They’re not looking for vague advice or therapy that goes in circles—they want clear direction, practical strategies, and meaningful progress. That’s where I focus my work.

I’m a licensed psychologist, Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA), and certified school psychologist. I specialize in ADHD, autism, anxiety, behavioral challenges, and executive functioning across the lifespan. My approach is structured, active, and results-focused. Sessions are not just about talking—they’re about identifying what’s not working, building skills, and making measurable progress using cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and behavior therapy.

I work with children, teens, college students, and adults, including individuals who are high-functioning, gifted, or twice-exceptional (2e). I also work with college students who are capable and motivated but struggling with follow-through, organization, anxiety, or burnout, as well as adults who may be undiagnosed and are looking for clarity and practical support.

In addition to therapy, I provide autism evaluations, behavioral parent coaching, and consultation with schools to support consistency across settings.

I tend to be a good fit for individuals and families who want a straightforward, collaborative approach and are ready to actively work toward change.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 16 years

Selman Behavior Solutions, Founder, 2018 - Present
First Children Services, Chief Operating Officer, 2019 - 2021
JSS Behavioral Services, Founder, Director of Clinical Services, 2013 - 2019

Rutgers Unversity, PsyD, 2010
University of Massachusetts, Amherst, BA, 2002

Licensure

New York: 023370-02 - South Carolina: 1239 - Pennsylvania: PS019244 - Alabama: 7275 - Arizona: 7275 - Arkansas: 7275 - Colorado: 7275 - Connecticut: 7275 - Delaware: 7275 - Washington DC: 7275 - Georgia: 7275 - Illinois: 7275 - Kentucky: 7275 - Maine: 7275 - Maryland: 7275 - Minnesota: 7275 - Missouri: 7275 - Nevada: 7275 - New Hampshire: 7275 - North Carolina: 7275 - Ohio: 7275 - Tennessee: 7275 - Utah: 7275 - Texas: 7275 - Virginia: 7275 - Wisconsin: 7275 - New Jersey: 7275 - Florida: 7275 - Michigan: 7275

Languages

English

Specialties

ADHD - Skill-building and support around organizational challenges, distracted attention, procrastination; building and maintaining healthy routines and structure

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Autism spectrum disorder - Support understanding the diagnosis and related challenges and strengths; skill-building in areas of daily routine, transitions, coping with overwhelming sensory experiences, social skills, and emotion identification and regulation

Child mental health - Specialized strategies for common childhood disorders including attention issues, attachment problems, behavioral disorders, learning disorders, autism spectrum diagnoses, and feeding or elimination issues.

Depression - Providing support and promoting healing of hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life

College & graduate student mental health - Specialized strategies for common issues of young adulthood, including school and career stressors, support around healthy relationships, existential concerns, drug or alcohol issues, eating disorders, and anxiety and/or depression.




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Children (<12)
  • Families
  • Parents
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours

Please email me to schedule a free phone consultation. I am happy to chat to see if I am a good fit for you or your family. I look forward to our work together!


Insurance

Jeffrey Selman is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.


Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$300 (50min)
  • Sliding scale:$175 - $300

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