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Lance Rao(He/Him/His)

(He/Him/His)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
FloridaNew Jersey
Addiction-Anger management- Anxiety - Couples counseling- Depression- Relationship issues-
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Professional statement

He works with adults facing a broad range of personal and relational concerns, including dating and relationship difficulties, infidelity, breakups and divorce, parenting stress, family conflict, career concerns, sexual issues, addiction, depression, anxiety, stress management, and the often underappreciated upheavals of midlife. Many of his clients seek therapy not only to reduce symptoms, but to better understand longstanding emotional patterns, improve decision-making, and develop healthier, more satisfying relationships. Whether someone is struggling with a specific crisis or simply feeling stuck in an old way of living, he aims to help clients move toward greater clarity, steadiness, and self-respect.

His therapeutic style is solution-focused, proactive, and collaborative. He believes therapy should be a place for both insight and movement: a space in which clients can better understand their histories while also developing practical tools for change in the present. His work is characterized by empathy, optimism, and directness. He is straightforward without being harsh, encouraging without being sentimental, and engaged without being judgmental. In sessions, he works together with clients to identify obstacles, strengthen coping skills, and cultivate the confidence needed for thoughtful, lasting change. After all, while insight is valuable, most people are not seeking a graduate seminar in suffering.

Drawing from psychodynamic theory, cognitive behavioral therapy, and interpersonal neurobiology, he tailors treatment to the needs and temperament of each individual. This integrative approach allows him to examine both the deeper roots of emotional distress and the day-to-day habits that sustain it. By combining self-understanding with practical skill-building, he helps clients make sense of their inner lives, improve their relationships, and respond more effectively to the demands of everyday life.

Before opening his private practice in Stuart, Florida, he gained valuable clinical experience working at Sandy Pines Hospital in Tequesta and Suncoast Mental Health in Fort Pierce.


Message to clients

I was born and raised in New York, and my path to becoming a therapist has been shaped by both academic training and real-world clinical experience. I earned my B.A. in Philosophy from Fordham University, where I was accepted into the National Honor Society Phi Sigma Tau, and later received my Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling from Palm Beach Atlantic University. Before opening my practice in Stuart, Florida, I worked at Sandy Pines Hospital in Tequesta and Suncoast Mental Health in Fort Pierce. I have also published numerous articles on mental health topics and remain committed to helping clients better understand themselves and their lives.

Starting therapy can feel both empowering and intimidating, and I respect how much courage it can take to begin. You do not need to have everything figured out before coming in. In our work together, I want to provide a space where you can feel understood, challenged when appropriate, and supported at a pace that feels right for you. Especially in the beginning, I believe the client helps set the pace, because building trust is an important part of the process.

My hope is that therapy will not only help you manage what feels difficult in the present, but also help you build greater clarity, resilience, and confidence moving forward. And no, you do not have to arrive with a perfectly organized life story or a dramatic breakthrough prepared for session one — just showing up is enough to begin.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 22 years

Private Practice, Clinician, 2008 - Present

Palm Beach Atlantic University, MS, 2004

Licensure

New Jersey: 37PC00875100 - Florida: MH11748

Languages

English, Norwegian

Specialties

Addiction - Coping with emotional discomfort and suffering; reducing or abstaining from unwanted behaviors such as unhealthy gambling or shopping

Anger management - Addressing sudden outbursts of anger or sustained resentment; developing healthy anger expression and outlets

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Depression - Providing support and promoting healing of hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life

Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Cigna
  • UMR
  • United Healthcare
  • United Healthcare Student Health Plan

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$200 (50min)
  • Sliding scale:$140 - $200

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