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Lily Pernoud works with individuals and couples seeking greater clarity, stability, and connection in their relationships. Many of her clients come to therapy feeling uncertain—about trust, intimacy, or how to move forward when something in the relationship no longer feels steady. Her practice focuses on supporting clients through relational challenges, including betrayal, communication difficulties, and concerns related to emotional and physical intimacy.
Her approach is relational, trauma-informed, and collaborative. Lily provides a structured and steady therapeutic environment where clients can slow down, understand patterns, and begin to make meaningful changes. She integrates attachment-based perspectives, the Gottman Method, and somatic awareness to support both insight and practical movement forward. The work is intentionally paced, balancing emotional safety with thoughtful direction.
Lily is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and a Certified Sex Therapist (CST). She has over a decade of experience working with individuals and relational systems navigating complex emotional and interpersonal concerns. Her clinical background includes specialized training in intimacy and sexual health, relational therapy, and trauma-informed care.
She offers in-person sessions at Maison Fleur in St. Louis, as well as telehealth appointments throughout Missouri. Her practice is private-pay, allowing for a personalized and depth-oriented approach to care. Lily works with adult individuals and couples who are ready to engage in thoughtful, meaningful therapeutic work.
Years of Experience: 8 years
Communication issues - Developing effective interpersonal skills in relationships with partners, families, and co-workers; using healthy methods of communication to convey needs and respond to others
Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love
Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating
Sexual health & dysfunction - Addressing emotional, physical, and biological concerns related to sexual intimacy and functioning; education and skill building around topics such as erectile dysfunction, orgasms, low libido, shame, and history of abuse; improving communication to realize a fulfilling sex life
Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse
Infidelity - Processing through the impacts that infidelity has on one’s relationship; learning how to set boundaries, resolve conflict effectively, and promote healing in the relationship
Lily Pernoud is not in-network with any insurances.
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Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.
Individual sessions are $185 and couples sessions are $215 for 55-minute appointments. Services are offered on a private-pay basis, with documentation available for out-of-network reimbursement. I’m happy to answer any questions about fees or what to expect.
The practice will call you for a free 10 minute phone call to discuss your needs and ensure a match!
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