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Clinical Mental Health Counseling, MA
New YorkNew Jersey
Addiction- Anxiety -Porn/Sex Addiction-Men's issues-Perfectionism-Imposter syndrome-

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Professional statement

Peter Stieglmayr is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor based in New York, NY, specializing in therapy for high-performing men in their 20s–50s. He works with professionals across finance, tech, marketing, creative fields, and government who are quietly navigating anxiety, perfectionism, and impostor syndrome — and the relentless pressure of always being the one who delivers.

Many of Peter's clients have mastered the art of looking like they have it together — the career is real, the results are real — but so is the persistent voice that says it's only a matter of time before someone sees through it. Beneath the achievement, many struggle with deep self-criticism: a belief that they aren't truly worth love, comfort, or success. For high-achieving men, anxiety often shows up not as visible distress but as an engine that drives overwork, self-doubt, and the constant fear of not being enough. Perfectionism and impostor syndrome are frequently anxiety in disguise, and Peter helps clients understand and unwind those patterns at their root.

Peter's approach is direct and discreet, designed for men who are used to solving problems rather than sitting with them. He builds strong rapport with each client before drawing on evidence-based modalities including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and psychodynamic therapy. Clients develop practical tools for managing difficult thoughts and emotions, growing their confidence and sense of self-efficacy in a relaxed, judgment-free environment.

With 6 years of experience and a Master's degree in Mental Health Counseling from Fordham University, Peter brings deep clinical expertise to every session. He holds credentials as a Licensed Addictions Counselor (CASAC) and Certified DBT Clinician (C-DBT), and works with men who are ready to stop managing the symptoms and start addressing what's underneath.


Message to clients

You've built a life that looks successful from the outside — and in many ways, it is. But if you're here, there's likely a part of you that's exhausted from carrying something no one else can see. Maybe it's the anxiety that hides behind your drive. The self-criticism that tells you you're not truly worth love, comfort, or the success you've worked so hard for. The quiet fear that you'll be found out, or that no matter how much you achieve, it will never feel like enough.

That's exactly what this space is for.

I work with men who are used to being the one with the answers — and who rarely, if ever, ask for help. Reaching out takes a different kind of strength, and I don't take that lightly. What you share here stays here, always. My approach is direct and collaborative — you'll be challenged, supported, and met without judgment.

You've invested in every other part of your life. This is an investment in the person running all of it. Reach out to schedule a free consultation, and let's find out what becomes possible when you finally have the right support.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 6 years

Living Hope Mental Health Counseling, PLLC, President & Founder, 2022 - Present
Bleuler Psychotherapy Center, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, 2021 - 2023
Mandevilla Mental Health Counseling, Contract - Licensed Mental Health Counselor, 2022 - 2023
Phoenix House of NY Inpatient, Residential Mental Health Counselor, 2020 - 2021

Fordham University, MA - Mental Health Counseling, 2020

Licensure

New York: 012527 - New Jersey: 37PC00977400

Languages

English

Specialties

Addiction - Coping with emotional discomfort and suffering; reducing or abstaining from unwanted behaviors such as unhealthy gambling or shopping

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Porn/Sex Addiction - Building strategies to reduce harmful sexual behaviors; coping with difficult emotions, thoughts, and urges; maintaining healthy relationships; coping with past porn use; develop ways to overcome the use of porn

Men's issues - Expertise in working with adult men; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges and promote physical and mental health

Perfectionism - Coping with feelings of anxiety, stress, self-criticism, and procrastination; addressing unrealistic expectations of one’s self and negatively comparing self to others

Imposter syndrome - Learning how to identify instances of imposter syndrome and combatting any beliefs that one is not enough or does not deserve good things; practicing assertiveness and developing confidence




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

  • Aetna (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Aetna Student Health Insurance (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Ambetter (in-network in NY)
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield (in-network in NY)
  • Brighton Health Plans / Magnacare (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Columbia University Student Health Insurance Plan (Aetna) (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield (in-network in NY)
  • FIT Student Health Insurance (Aetna) (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Fidelis Care (in-network in NY)
  • Humana (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Medicaid (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Meritain Health (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • NYU Student Health Insurance (Wellfleet / Cigna PPO) (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Optum (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Oscar Health (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Oxford Health Plans (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • Tricare (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • UMR (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • United Healthcare (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • United Healthcare Shared Services (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • United Healthcare Student Health Plan (in-network in NY, NJ)
  • UnitedHealthcare/Optum - Medicaid (in-network in NY, NJ)

Peter Stieglmayr is accepting clients using listed insurances, paying listed fees, or using health insurance out-of-network benefits other than:

  • Evernorth


Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$350 (60min)
  • Sliding scale:$174 - $350

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Credit Card
  • Debit Card
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Every other week
  • Multiple times a week
Therapist's note

Prior to working together, I will research your insurance coverage and provide you with a copay estimate and deductible. Depending on your insurance plan, you may be able to deduct out of network (OON) services.


Client testimonials

"Peter is an amazing listener and then he comes back with a gentle clever, intelligent approach to discuss the solutions to my on going problems. Highly suggest!!!"
- Zencare client March 2023
"Peter is extremely professional, insightful and very down to earth. Our relationship continues to grow as he helps me through my therapeutic journey."
- Zencare client February 2024
"Peter was/is exactly who I needed and still need. He is compassionate, engaging, understanding, and never judges. I cannot recommend him enough!"
- Zencare client June 2025

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