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I work from a place of deep connection and care, built on the idea that healing really starts when someone truly sees and gets you. You come with a whole world inside—shaped by everything you've lived through, your family, your culture, how you learned to connect, and all the ways you've figured out how to navigate life. In our sessions, I want to honor all of it, not just what brought you through the door today.
To me, therapy isn't about fixing what's "wrong." It's about creating the right conditions for you to know yourself more deeply, feel more emotionally free, and connect more authentically with others. Through building trust, creating real safety, and staying truly present with you, I offer both a supportive space and a gentle nudge when it's time: room to unfold at whatever pace feels right, plus some loving structure to help you explore new ground. I'll use psychoeducation, mindfulness practices, and deeper exploration to help you make sense of your experience, find your voice again, and tap back into the wisdom you already carry.
Whether we're meeting face-to-face or online, this space is here to hold the real you, all of you. Even through a screen, we're still two people showing up together, imperfect and curious, both capable of real growth.
Years of Experience: 14 years
Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love
LGBTQIA, gender, & sexuality topics - Exploring topics of sexuality, gender, and identity; coping with discrimination and oppression; navigating relationship, family, and cultural challenges
Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating
Sex addiction - Building strategies to reduce harmful sexual behaviors; coping with difficult emotions, thoughts, and urges; maintaining healthy relationships
Sexual health & dysfunction - Addressing emotional, physical, and biological concerns related to sexual intimacy and functioning; education and skill building around topics such as erectile dysfunction, orgasms, low libido, shame, and history of abuse; improving communication to realize a fulfilling sex life
Nonmonogamy, polyamory, and kink - Exploring one’s values in and beliefs about relationships; practicing boundary-setting, conflict resolution, and romantic or sexual relationship bonding with partners
My availability is constantly shifting as clients start and finish their work with me. Please contact me for current openings.
Adrian Scharfetter is not in-network with any insurances.
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