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Ellen Darling

Psychologist, PhD
Rhode Island
Undergrads, graduate and medical students-Depression-Anxiety-Perinatal mental health-Medical professionals' mental health- Couples counseling-

Many health insurance plans reimburse 50-80% of session fees with out-of-network therapists. Learn if your plan qualifies.

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Professional statement

Dr. Ellen Darling is a seasoned clinical psychologist in Providence, RI who works with adults, students, and couples. She sees many members of the Brown University community including faculty, staff, students, and medical professionals.

Dr. Darling’s individual treatment approach is integrative, drawing from insight-oriented psychodynamic traditions and skills-based therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. While each session is anchored by an intimate therapeutic relationship, she draws from a range of approaches and tools to collaboratively co-create change with you. Her relational approach is often emotionally-evocative as challenging places within are approached in pursuit of more freedom, vitality, and growth.

Dr. Darling also has advanced expertise in treating intimate relationships. She is passionate about guiding couples through challenges including intimacy difficulties, alienation, communication impasses, chronic conflict, infidelity, parenthood issues, and other periods of transition. She practices Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy (IBCT), an evidence-based approach that identifies patterns that keep partners disconnected and in doing so offers new possibilities for empathy and change. IBCT has been the focus of a major clinical trial sponsored by the National Institute of Mental Health and has garnered scientific support as a leading intervention for relationship distress. Dr. Darling has a sub-specialty in supporting new mothers, and couples, in navigating the transition to parenthood and in treating perinatal anxiety and depression.

Dr. Darling received her BA from Brown University, her PhD from Clark University, where she trained at the Center for Couples and Family Research, and she completed a Postdoctoral Fellowship at Brown University's Warren Alpert Medical School. In addition to her private practice, Dr. Darling is an Affiliate Assistant Professor in the Lifeline for Families Group at UMass Chan Medical School where she works on research advancing relationship healthcare.


Message to clients

Seeking support in managing life’s challenges is a powerful first step towards making concrete changes to address immediate stress and discomfort while also setting the stage for deeper self-awareness as we work to understand and shift unhelpful ways you may have learned to relate to yourself and others. Patients often report that through our work they’re empowered with new ways of understanding and responding to their experience, which not only alleviates distress in the short-term, but also results in more authentic and fulfilling relationships that sustain wellbeing over the longer-term.

I identify as an integrative therapist and my clinical approach draws from both Interpersonal or Relational Therapy and empirically-supported ‘Third Wave’ Mindfulness and Acceptance-based Behavioral Therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy. My goal is to work with you collaboratively in identifying both short and longer-term treatment goals, and to provide multi-culturally competent care which actively affirms LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, and the specific experiences people of color and others carrying marginalized identities often bear.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 10 years

UMass Chan Medical School, Lifeline for Families Group, Affiliate Assistant Professor , 2024 - Present
Brown University Counseling & Psychological Services, Postdoctoral Fellow, 2016 - 2017
Butler Hospital Dialectical Behavior Therapy Women's Partial Program, Therapist, 2013 - 2015
University of Massachusetts Medical School Student Counseling Center, Therapist, 2012 - 2015

Clark University, PhD, 2016
Clark University, MA, 2013
Brown University, BA, 2002

Licensure

Rhode Island: PS01693

Languages

English

Specialties

Undergrads, graduate and medical students - Sees undergraduate, graduate, and medical students for anxiety, chronic or severe depression, feelings of uncertainty about the future, substance abuse issues, eating issues, and relationships struggles with friends or family

Depression - Sleep and energy disruption, overall mood disturbance, inability to enjoy yourself, and difficulty being motivated, amongst many other symptoms

Anxiety - Generalized anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks

Perinatal mental health - Anxiety, depression, and relationship concerns specific to childbearing women and their families

Medical professionals' mental health - Support navigating work-related expectations and stress; addressing issues of burnout, hierarchical pressures, and vicarious trauma

Couples counseling - Sees couples for intimacy challenges, chronic conflict, alienation, sexual difficulties, infidelity, parenthood, and life transitions such as the decision to commit to each other or have a child; trained in an evidence-based approach called Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy that allows couples to witness the challenges that have gotten them stuck




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Parents
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

Ellen Darling is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.


Out-of-pocket fees

Get reimbursed for sessions with Ellen Darling

Many health insurance plans reimburse 50-80% of session fees with out-of-network therapists. Learn if your health insurance plan qualifies.

  • Individual sessions:$275 (45min)
  • Initial session:$350 (60min)
  • Couples sessions:$350 (60min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card
  • Venmo
  • Zelle
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
Therapist's note

Dr. Darling can provide a claim for you to submit directly to your insurance company for reimbursement as per your coverage.


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