John Kane

Is your marriage drifting into a state of "silent survival," where you're sharing a home but living separate lives? You might look like the perfect couple from the outside, but inside you’re struggling with a loss of trust, the weight of hidden habits, or the exhausting mental load of navigating life with ADHD and neurodiversity. You feel like you’re walking on eggshells, waiting for the next crisis while true intimacy feels like a distant memory. I specialize in the "complex stuff" that conventional therapy often misses, helping you move from a state of survival to a healthy, lasting relationship.

My approach is active and collaborative. With 25 years of experience across private practice and therapeutic wilderness programs, I don’t believe in just "sitting and listening." We will work together to help you learn the emotional and relational intelligence, and conflict resolutions skills needed to heal and thrive in your marriage.I specialize in stabilizing marriages facing the unique intersection of addiction and neurodiverse (ADHD/Autism) needs—taking marriages on the edge and empowering them to heal and thrive.

Beyond my clinical work, I am a husband and father of four. I know firsthand that family life is both beautiful and incredibly challenging. My background from Western Seminary also allows me to offer faith-sensitive care for those who value it, though I welcome clients from all walks of life. I believe that even the most broken situations can find a path to healing. I offer a free 15-minute consultation to ensure we’re the right fit for your goals. If you are ready for a more stable future, reach out today to take that first step toward restoration.