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Lily Nussbaum, LMHC(She/Her/Hers)

(She/Her/Hers)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
New York
Anxiety - Couples counseling-Family issues- Life transitions- Relationship issues-Childhood trauma-
AboutSpecialtiesLocationsInsurance & Fees

Professional statement

Lily works with adults across the lifespan and specializes in relationships and couples therapy. Her clients often come in feeling stuck, caught in repetitive patterns of relating that may have once been protective or adaptive but no longer serve them. Whether the people Lily sees are navigating relationship challenges, life transitions, or long-standing emotional struggles, she provides a space to explore these experiences with curiosity and care.

Lily's approach is grounded in relational psychodynamic theory, emphasizing the importance of understanding how past experiences shape present dynamics. She helps clients deepen self-awareness, identify underlying patterns of thought and behavior, and develop more effective ways of communicating and connecting. In work with couples, Lily focuses on fostering mutual understanding, improving communication, and helping partners move out of entrenched cycles toward more fulfilling relationships.

As a licensed mental health counselor, Lily has nearly a decade of experience providing both individual and couples therapy. Her clinical work has been rooted in her time with SelfWorks Group, where she has developed a thoughtful, collaborative style that balances insight-oriented exploration with practical tools for change.

Lily's office is located in Manhattan’s Flatiron district, and she offers both in-person and remote sessions. This flexibility allows her to accommodate a range of schedules and preferences, making therapy accessible whether clients are local or prefer to meet virtually.


Message to clients

Before starting therapy together, it’s helpful to know that this process is collaborative and unfolds at your pace. My hope for you is that, through our work together, you gain greater clarity about yourself and develop a stronger sense of self-confidence in your day-to-day. Therapy is a space where we can slow down, reflect, and begin to understand patterns that may feel confusing or overwhelming to contemplate.

The work of therapy is not always comfortable—at times it can feel challenging or unfamiliar—but it should always feel safe. I place a strong emphasis on creating a therapeutic relationship where you feel respected, supported, and able to speak openly. No topic is off-limits; everything you bring into the room is relevant and worthy of attention. Therapy offers a meaningful opportunity to get to know yourself more deeply, and I’m here to support you in that process.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 6 years

SelfWorks Group, Mental Health Counselor, 2020 - Present

Fordham University, Masters of Science in Education, 2020

Licensure

New York: 013644

Languages

English

Specialties

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Family issues - Promoting communication and supporting family members to address challenges and reduce conflict and distress

Life transitions - Coping with difficult or impactful life changes, such as moving to a new area, relationship transitions, child rearing, or career changes; learning self-care to better manage resulting stress

Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating

Childhood trauma - Learning how traumatic events in childhood can translate into adulthood; processing through difficult memories with the goal of moving past the experience and lingering symptoms




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Parents
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

  • Lyra Health
  • Northwell Direct

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$300 (45min)
  • Sliding scale:$250 - $300
  • Initial session:$380 (60min)
  • Couples sessions:$360 (45min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Credit Card
  • Debit Card
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Every other week

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