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Monica Edenholm, LAMFT, PA-C(She/Her/Hers)

(She/Her/Hers)
Physician Assistant-Certified, PA-C
Washington
ADHD- Couples counseling-Family issues-Self-esteem-Stepfamily/Blended Family Issues-Emotion regulation-
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Professional statement

Monica Edenholm is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in the intricate dynamics of couples and family systems. While she maintains a dedicated practice for individuals, Monica focuses on helping partners and families navigate the high-stakes transitions that define our lives. From deepening intimacy to the delicate process of divorce and the formation of blended families, Monica helps clients transform upheaval into opportunities for lasting connection.

Monica believes the health of the primary partnership serves as the foundation for the entire family's well-being. Using a Rogerian (Humanistic) framework, she provides unconditional positive regard and genuine empathy, ensuring all clients feel safely seen. Her work is particularly effective for couples "stuck" in repetitive conflict. She practices from an antiracist, body-positive, and LGBTQ+ affirming perspective, exploring how social justice and power dynamics impact the family unit.

Monica integrates evidence-based tools to move clients from reactivity to restoration:

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Identifying negative cycles to build secure emotional bonds and vulnerable attachment.

Blended Family & Divorce Support: Navigating the unique hurdles of co-parenting, boundary-setting, and healthy "conscious uncoupling."

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT): Providing concrete skills for emotional regulation and de-escalating arguments during high-stress transitions.

A graduate of Seattle University, Monica is a strengths-based therapist who believes every couple and family possesses an innate resilience. Whether you are seeking to repair a marriage, navigate a peaceful separation, or harmonize a blended family, Monica empowers you to find a renewed sense of hope and collective healing.


Message to clients

I believe that people are inherently resilient and possess everything they need to find joy and fulfillment; sometimes, we simply need a navigator to help us through the "muck" to see that potential more clearly.

My approach is deeply humanistic, providing you with unconditional support, but my previous medical training also means I am a direct and active participant in your growth. I won't just sit back—I will work alongside you to identify patterns and facilitate change.

I would love to connect and see if we are a good fit. You can schedule a consultation electronically through my website or feel free email me directly. I look forward to meeting you


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 3 years

Christina Harpster Counseling Services, Couples & Family Therapist Intern, 2022 - 2023
The Everett Clinic, Dermatology Physician Assistant, 2016 - 2021
Seattle Skin & Laser, Dermatology Physician Assistant, 2006 - 2016
Planned Parenthood of Western Washington, Volunteer, Patient Care Coordinator, Clinician, 1990 - 2008
Seattle Children's Hospital, Pediatric Dermatology Physician Assistant, 2003 - 2006
Planned Parenthood of The Rocky Mountains, Regional Manager, Clinic Manager, Patient Care Coordinator, 1998 - 2001
HPV Research Group, University of Washington, Research Assistant, 1996 - 1998

Seattle University, Master's in Family and Couples Therapy, 2023
University of Washington Medical School, MEDEX, Physician Assistant Certification/Health Sciences Degree, 2003
University of Washington Undergraduate, Sociology, 1996

Licensure

Washington: LF61687157

Languages

English

Specialties

ADHD - Skill-building and support around organizational challenges, distracted attention, procrastination; building and maintaining healthy routines and structure

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Family issues - Promoting communication and supporting family members to address challenges and reduce conflict and distress

Self-esteem - Cultivating self-compassion, assertiveness, and confidence; developing ways to reduce suffering, anxiety, social withdrawal, and self-neglect

Stepfamily/Blended Family Issues - Issues regarding stepfamilies and blended families

Emotion regulation - Learning how to effectively manage the ups and downs of intense emotions; developing coping skills to use in a variety of settings to calm oneself and to give an appropriate amount of space to emotions




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Parents

Locations & Hours


Insurance

  • Premera Blue Cross

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$160 (50min)
  • Couples sessions:$180 (50min)
  • Family sessions:$180 (50min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card
  • Debit Card
  • Venmo
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Monthly
  • Every other week
  • As needed

Client testimonials

"Very informative and respectful introductory call with details and next steps clarified."
- Zencare client May 2024
"Monica is empathetic, inquisitive and understanding. She provides a great balance of providing insight while encouraging increased self awareness."
- Zencare client June 2024
"Monica called exactly when she said she would. Her call was professional and she took the time to listen, to ask appropriate questions and to make plans to move forward."
- Zencare client August 2025

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The practice will call you for a free 10 minute phone call to discuss your needs and ensure a match!

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