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Rebecca Kaderli, LPC, LSATP, NCC

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Virginia
Couples counseling-Men's issues- Relationship issues- Sexual health & dysfunction-Women's Issues-Life purpose & meaning-
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Professional statement

Welcome mid-life couples and singles!

Are you facing loneliness or depression, a loss of passion, infidelity, trauma, anxiety, or major disagreements in your relationship or within yourself? Therapy helps. I work with adults and specialize in mid-life, couples counseling, and sex therapy–informed treatment. Whether you’re navigating mood disorders or anxiety, empty nesting, hormonal shifts, or fading passion, I help men and women rebuild confidence, purpose, and vitality, and support people of all identities in finding joy.

For many, mid-life brings unexpected questions—about your relationship, your body, sexual functioning, your purpose, or whether the life you’ve built still fits. It’s a time of transition, and also tremendous possibility. I look forward to meeting you. You are worth the investment.

—Rebecca

Rebecca Kaderli, LPC, LSATP, ACS, NCC, CSTIP, C-DBT is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Substance Abuse Treatment Practitioner, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and Approved Clinical Supervisor. With over a decade of public service experience, Rebecca has held prominent leadership roles, including serving as the 76th President of the Virginia Counselors Association, gubernatorial appointment to the Right Help, Right Now campaign, and founding the Virginia Behavioral Health Providers Coalition. A passionate advocate for the counseling profession, she has testified before the Virginia Legislature, collaborated with policymakers, and led statewide initiatives to improve behavioral health services.

Rebecca currently spends her time supervising practicing counselors and teaching graduate students, in addition to private practice. Rebecca is certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and is a Nationally Certified Counselor. A multi-year recipient of the Richmond Behavioral Health Champion Award for Advocacy, Rebecca also provides consulting, training, and outpatient therapy through her private practice. When she’s not making strides in the counseling field, she enjoys reading, opera, and spending time with her gym buddies in Glen Allen, Virginia.


Message to clients

This work matters to me. I genuinely like people and am passionate about counseling, navigating couples dynamics, healing depression or loss, and breaking free of imposter syndrome. In our sessions, we'll target the pain, blending relational and tactical approaches to promote change. Whether we're solving immediate problems or focusing on long-term growth, know you can feel better.

Throughout my career, I’ve been fortunate to study with Master Counselor Demetrios Peratsakis, and am fluent with a variety of mental health issues. I offer concierge-level therapy in Richmond, VA, focused on helping couples and individuals navigate challenges with clarity, insight, and renewed connection. Nothing is off the table in our sessions. Whether you're rebuilding after betrayal, craving deeper intimacy, feeling invisible in your relationship, or simply wondering what's next, this work is an investment in your future. You'll find my approach straightforward yet compassionate, blending intelligence, humor, and empathy. I draw from Adlerian therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), using evidence-based strategies tailored to your unique story.

Clients appreciate my ability to confront tough topics and apply complex concepts in a way that resonates. I am nonjudgmental, non-moralistic, and fanatical about counseling theory. I believe in the actualization tendency and approach life’s challenges with optimism. Therapy works. Take the step towards a positive experience—reach out. You’re welcome here.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 14 years

Actualize Psychotherapy and Couples Counseling, Owner, 2023 - Present
Behavioral Health Providers Coalition , Chair , 2023 - Present
Virginia Commonwealth University , Professor , 2018 - Present
Richmond Behavioral Health Authority , Senior Administrator , 2013 - 2026
Virginia Counselors Association , President , 2018 - 2021

Integrative Sex Therapy Institute, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Practitioner, 2025
Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy National Therapist Certification ProgramTherapist , Certified Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapist , 2021
Evergreen Certifications, Certified Dialectical Behavior Therapist, 2020
South University, MA, Clinical Mental Health Counseling , 2012

Licensure

Virginia: 0701006250

Languages

English

Specialties

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Men's issues - Expertise in working with adult men; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges and promote physical and mental health

Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating

Sexual health & dysfunction - Addressing emotional, physical, and biological concerns related to sexual intimacy and functioning; education and skill building around topics such as erectile dysfunction, orgasms, low libido, shame, and history of abuse; improving communication to realize a fulfilling sex life

Women's Issues - Therapy tailored to common concerns among women; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges, stressors, and questions around identity as a woman

Life purpose & meaning - Exploring one’s beliefs and values around life purpose, meaning, and spirituality; addressing the barriers to living a life that feels fulfilling, including instigating change or developing new habits




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Parents
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

Rebecca Kaderli is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.


Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$195 (50min)

Client testimonials

"She was very understanding and I will be talking to her again"
- Zencare client December 2025

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