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Robert Jaffe(He/Him/His)

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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
California
Alcohol use disorder & addiction- Anxiety - Couples counseling- Depression-Men's issues- Trauma-

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Professional statement

Dr. Robert Jaffe specializes in transformational therapy for high-achieving professionals who appear successful externally but feel disconnected, exhausted, or trapped in persistent patterns. His clientele consists of accomplished executives and leaders who have mastered external success but struggle with internal fulfillment, often presenting with stress-related coping behaviors, addictions, relationship difficulties, perfectionism, and a sense of living split lives between public achievements and private struggles. He also works extensively with high-achieving couples who are seeking authentic intimacy while maintaining professional excellence.

Dr. Jaffe's therapeutic approach combines psychological and body-based healing methods within a trauma-informed framework. He integrates Somatic Experiencing to release trauma held in the body, Internal Family Systems (IFS) for understanding inner parts, EMDR for trauma processing, Transactional Analysis for recognizing behavioral patterns, and Clinical Hypnosis to reinforce changes. Rather than traditional talk therapy, he employs active interventions targeting the subconscious mind and nervous system, where emotional patterns reside. His approach recognizes that emotional patterns cannot be healed through cognitive awareness alone, focusing on compassionate methods that help individuals transform protective patterns like emotional armor and inner criticism into sources of authentic strength.

Dr. Jaffe brings over 40 years of clinical experience, including 24 years as Chief Consulting Therapist at Addiction Recovery Centers. Licensed for individual, marriage, and family therapy in California, he has extensive training in somatic approaches and has developed the Authentic Power Integration System, a methodology addressing root causes of inner division in successful individuals.

Located in Encino, California, Dr. Jaffe offers in-person and secure video/phone sessions statewide. Individual therapy is $450 per 55-minute session or $250 per 30-minute session; Couples therapy is $450 per session. New clients complete a 90-minute assessment ($675) with personalized treatment planning. Limited availability ensures focused attention. Prospective clients receive a complimentary 20-minute consultation to assess compatibility.


Message to clients

I want you to know that the part of you that brought you here, seeking something deeper than external success, is your truest self speaking. While your ego may have mastered performing, achieving, and looking put-together from the outside, your spirit (or soul) recognizes that something essential has been missing. This isn't a failure; it's your inner wisdom calling you toward wholeness.

What I've learned over four decades is that transformation happens, not when we force ourselves to change, but when we create safety and compassion to allow what's been hidden to emerge. Your patterns of emotional armor, inner criticism, and disconnection aren't character flaws; they are intelligent adaptations that keep you safe. My hope is that together, we can honor what these patterns have done for you, while gently updating them to serve who you're becoming, rather than who you had to be.

I believe that beneath the layers of protection and performance lies an authentic self that doesn't need to choose between strength and vulnerability, between success and peace. In our work together, you'll discover that your sensitivity isn't a weakness to overcome, but a doorway to deeper connection, with yourself, with others, and with a life that feels genuinely your own. You don't have to have it all figured out before we begin; you just need to be curious about what becomes possible when you stop managing your life from the neck up, and start living from your whole being.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 44 years

Psychotherapy Practice of Dr. Robert Jaffe, LMFT, PhD, Psychotherapist/ Hypnotherapist, 1984 - Present
Cri-Help Inc. Recovery Center, Chief Psychotherapist for Addictions, 1985 - 2008

American Institute of Hypnotherapy , Doctorate of Philosophy, Hypnotherapy , 1989
University of LaVerne , Masters of Science, Counseling Psychology, 1982
California State University, Northridge, Bachelor of Arts, Philosophy , 1971

Licensure

California: 19513

Languages

English

Specialties

Alcohol use disorder & addiction - Tolerating emotional discomfort; reducing or eliminating reliance on alcohol; development of new coping mechanisms for stress and suffering.

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Depression - Providing support and promoting healing of hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life

Men's issues - Expertise in working with adult men; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges and promote physical and mental health

Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Parents
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Teenagers (13-18)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

Robert Jaffe is not in-network with any insurances.

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Out-of-pocket fees

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Many health insurance plans reimburse 50-80% of session fees with out-of-network therapists. Learn if your health insurance plan qualifies.

  • Individual sessions:$450 (55min)

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