Infertility Counseling Therapists in New York
Infertility Counseling therapists in New York offer compassionate guidance to help you navigate the emotional complexities of your journey.
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Chelsea Calello
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility Counseling Anxiety Couples counselingPregnancy, perinatal, postpartum mental health Relationship issues Stress management
Online only
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Susan Lemor
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility CounselingCouples counselingFamily relationshipsLife transitionsInfertility counseling
In-person & online
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Soho Psychotherapy
Group practice
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Infertility CounselingAlcohol use disorder & addiction Anxiety Depression Relationship issues Trauma
In-person & online
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Debbie Oberlander
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility CounselingNutrition Coach for ParentsInfertility counseling Couples counseling
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Irina Simidchieva
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility Counseling Anxiety Life transitionsObsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)ADHD
In-person & online
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Mimi Spiro
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility CounselingDivorceTraumaLife transitionsCouples counselingSelf-esteem
In-person & online
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Hannah Hahn
Psychologist
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Infertility CounselingWorking with attorneysCreative artistsFertilityPregnancyNew mothers
In-person & online
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Claudia Rivas
Therapist
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Infertility Counseling Anxiety Attachment issuesPregnancy, perinatal, postpartum mental health Relationship issuesSelf-esteem
In-person & online
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Samantha Rohlman
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility Counseling Anxiety Career counseling Depression Life transitions Relationship issues
Online only
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Naomi Arbit
Therapist
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Infertility Counseling Anxiety Existential crisis & challenges Life transitionsPeak performance Stress management
In-person & online
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Jessica Michele Krantz
Therapist
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Infertility CounselingAdolescent mental healthFamily issues
In-person & online
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Michelle Nachmani
Therapist
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Infertility Counseling Anxiety Caregiver stress & support Couples counseling Depression Life transitions
In-person & online
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Jennifer Rubinstein Murray
Psychologist
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Infertility Counseling Couples counseling Relationship issuesParenting Anxiety Infertility counseling
In-person & online
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Gabrielle Ducsay
Psychologist
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Infertility Counseling Anxiety Relationship issuesShame Life transitionsInfertility counseling
In-person & online
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Katherine Guzman
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility CounselingCaregiver stress & support Life transitionsPostpartum depressionPregnancy, perinatal, postpartum mental healthSelf-care
In-person & online
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Pia Scaglione
Psychologist
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Infertility CounselingAdjustment difficulties & disorders Anxiety Depression LGBTQIA, gender, & sexuality topics Life transitions
In-person & online
Swati Shivale
Psychiatrist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility CounselingADHDAdjustment difficulties & disordersPregnancy, perinatal, postpartum mental healthMedical professionals' mental healthInfertility and TTC
Online only
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Aleecia Kaloustian
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility CounselingAnxietyStress managementLife transitionsMindfulnessRelationships
In-person & online
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Ciandra St. Kitts
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility Counseling Anxiety DepressionDevelopmental disorders Existential crisis & challenges Loss, grief, and bereavement
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Laura Maloney
Therapist
Accepting clients from New York
Infertility CounselingAdolescent mental health Anxiety Couples counselingInfertility counselingPostpartum depression
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1-20 of 44 providers who match your search criteria
Number of therapists in New York
1551
Available session format
Average cost per session
$223
Therapists in New York who specialize in:
95% Anxiety
86% Depression
71% Relationship issues
65% Life transitions
63% Trauma
60% Stress management
50% Self-esteem
46% Loss, grief, and bereavement
Top insurances plans accepted
48% Aetna
38% United Healthcare
38% Cigna
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How do I find an infertility counselor in New York who understands fertility treatment and the emotional toll?
You can find an infertility counselor in New York through Zencare’s directory by looking for clinicians who list infertility counseling and describe experience with TTC, IVF, pregnancy loss, donor decisions, and the stress of repeated uncertainty. An infertility counselor in New York should make space for grief, anger, jealousy, and numbness without rushing you into optimism. Look for profiles that mention coping with medical appointments, decision fatigue, relationship strain, and identity shifts, since infertility can touch every part of life.
New York can add pressure through scheduling, commuting to clinics, and the feeling that time and money run everything. A therapist can help you set emotional boundaries around treatment, create a plan for difficult dates and triggers, and protect your sense of self even while you navigate appointments and results
If you want to use insurance, ask about in-network status and out-of-network superbills early. Zencare’s health insurance guide can help you understand coverage so infertility counseling in New York feels financially manageable.
What happens in infertility counseling in New York during the first few sessions?
You can find infertility counseling in New York that starts with the truth of where you are right now, not where you “should” be emotionally. Early sessions often explore what your journey has looked like so far, what you’re facing next, and what has been hardest, such as two-week waits, procedures, losses, or feeling left behind as others get pregnant. A therapist may also ask about sleep, appetite, work stress, and social support, since fertility stress can take over your whole nervous system.
Many counselors offer coping tools that help you get through the next phase. Approaches like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) can help you stay connected to values and meaning even when outcomes feel out of your control. Some therapists also integrate mindfulness-based therapy to help you ride waves of anxiety without spiraling into constant checking and rumination.
If depression or anxiety has intensified, therapy can address that directly. Many people benefit from support for depression or anxiety alongside infertility counseling in New York, especially when the cycle of hope and disappointment has been relentless.
Can an infertility counselor in New York help with grief after miscarriage or pregnancy loss?
You can find infertility counseling in New York that holds pregnancy loss with tenderness and clarity, without minimizing it as something you should “move past.” Miscarriage and loss can create shock, bodily grief, anger, and a sense of betrayal by your own body. A therapist can help you process the experience, reduce isolation, and make space for whatever you feel, including grief, relief, rage, or numbness
Many people benefit from grief-focused support because the loss can be both physical and existential. Exploring grief can help you honor what mattered without forcing closure. If the loss felt frightening, medically intense, or retraumatizing, a therapist may also integrate trauma-informed care and connect your work to trauma support
If you feel stuck in intrusive memories or hypervigilance about your body, a therapist may draw from trauma therapy principles to help your nervous system settle. In New York, where life moves fast even when you’re shattered, therapy can provide a place where time slows down
How can infertility counseling in New York help my relationship, sex life, or communication with my partner?
You can find infertility counseling in New York that supports the relationship strain fertility stress often creates. Partners can grieve differently, cope differently, and hold different levels of hope, which can lead to misunderstandings and loneliness. A therapist can help you talk about fears, finances, timelines, and next steps without turning every conversation into a fight.
If sex has started to feel like a task or a test, therapy can help you rebuild intimacy and reduce performance pressure. Some couples add couples therapy so both partners have support and a shared language for the experience. If communication breaks down, exploring communication issues can help you speak more directly and listen with less defensiveness during a stressful New York fertility journey.
If family expectations or cultural pressure complicate decisions, therapy can also support boundary setting. Some people benefit from exploring family issues alongside infertility counseling, especially when relatives ask intrusive questions or push for choices that don’t fit your values.
How long does infertility counseling take in New York, and what does progress look like when outcomes are uncertain?
You can find infertility counseling in New York that supports you through uncertainty, not only through a single decision point. The timeline often depends on treatment stages, emotional intensity, and whether you’re navigating losses or big choices. Some people want short-term support through IVF cycles, while others want ongoing therapy that helps them stay grounded across months or years.
Progress often looks like steadier coping during the hardest moments. You might feel less consumed by monitoring, recover faster after a setback, and speak up more clearly about boundaries at work and with friends. Many people also feel progress when they can hold hope without letting hope become a demand, which can protect mental health in New York’s high-pressure environment.
If chronic stress has taken over your body, integrating somatic support can help. Some people pair infertility counseling with somatic therapy to reduce tension, sleep disruption, and hypervigilance
Can I use insurance for infertility counseling in New York, and what should I ask before scheduling?
You can find an infertility counselor in New York who takes insurance, offers out-of-network superbills, or provides private-pay options, and it helps to ask cost questions early. Ask whether the therapist is in-network, what the session fee is, and what documentation they provide for reimbursement. Zencare’s health insurance guide can help you understand deductibles, copays, and out-of-network coverage so infertility counseling in New York feels financially manageable.
You can also ask about how the therapist structures fertility-related care. Ask whether they support individuals, couples, or both, how they handle decision points, and what between-session support looks like during high-stress weeks. A strong infertility counselor in New York will answer clearly and help you feel less alone in a process that often feels isolating.
When you’re ready to compare infertility counselors in New York and choose someone who fits, explore Zencare.